Since You Ask by Louise Wareham
Since You Ask is about the origins of sexual compulsion, and one young woman's attempts to be free. -Winner of the James Jones Literary Society First Novel Award Wareham's simple, steady prose and aversion to glass-shattering drama elevate a potential cliche into unsettling intensity. -Entertainment Weekly From a Connecticut sanitarium, 24-year-old Betsy Scott tells her doctor a story about the destructive secrets in an outwardly successful family. A series of affairs take her into increasingly dark situations, from private-school Manhattan, to the outskirts of Queens, the downtown loft of a broker, the suburban house of a doctor in Scarsdale. Since You Ask is about the origins of sexual compulsion, and one young woman's attempts to be free. Editorial Reviews Louise Wareham's debut novel is a work of staggering intensity, written in a deceptively straight-forward, no-nonsense prose, which belies the vast iceberg of unexplored pain that lurks just below its surface. - Kaylie Jones Louise Wareham's keyed-down style amplifies the threat in the sexual terrain her narrator travels. She conveys the disequilibrium a young woman sustains in a run of soul-honing liaisons. ‘He saw I had been through something. And it was something that would serve him'-that the young narrator sees this and LIKES this in a man is the kind of charged and startling observation that powers this striking novel. - Amy Hempel The truly important novel, as Tolstoi so passionately averred, is the adventure of a question; and the question, most often, is unhappiness. Ranging inward to a psyche's unsettled relation to itself, and out into the wilderness of family and love, Louise Wareham's Since You Ask is a sustained and sustaining adventure, passionate as Tolstoi would approve. Reading this novel, I saw the substance (and substances) of unhappiness transformed into something even brighter than courage. This is a splendid debut. - Donald Revell Louise Wareham evokes the mystery of sexual compulsion with stunning honesty and quiet compassion. She captures the wry and brilliant humor of Betsy Scott, her core of tensile courage, so that we can bear to witness her life, so that we can keep our faith as she enters chaos to seek redemption. In the fragments of a fractured life, in stark and radiant images, Louise Wareham recovers miraculous beauty, a fragile stained glass vision of one woman's whole and luminous spirit. - Melanie Rae Thon Betsy Scott, a privileged private-school Manhattan teenager, is barely 16 when her reform-school boyfriend's shady boss takes an unwholesome interest in her. Surprisingly, Betsy willingly embarks on an affair with the 41-year-old. This relationship turns out to be only one of many inappropriate pairings that, along with family dysfunction and drug abuse, lead Betsy to a Connecticut mental hospital at age 24. Wareham's first novel is unsettling not only because of its subject matter but because the protagonist's simply stated but astute observations about her own compulsions force readers to rethink a lot of the common assumptions about sexual behavior. Those expecting scathing indictments of what many would view as the sexual predators in Betsy's life will be sorely disappointed, as Wareham is more interested in examining what role Betsy herself plays in these situations. Although it ends on a hopeful note, this is obviously a very dark book-and potentially a controversial one-but Wareham has created a compelling character who earns her reader's attention. - Booklist Wareham's simple, steady prose and aversion to glass-shattering drama elevate a potential clich into unsettling intensity. - Weekly Entertainment Since You Ask is . . . a dark accounting of one woman's irretrievable peace and the lure of destructive silence . . . Louise Wareham has delivered something scarily beautiful . . . befitting the provocation of an intelligent woman wrongly turned, then turned around. - Rain Taxi Review of Books Wareham is a bold, brave, first-rate writer . . . Since You Ask is a remarkable acomplishment. - The Journal News For her working manuscript of Since You Ask, Wareham won the 1999 James Jones Literary Society First Novel Award, given to honor the spirit of unblinking honesty, determination and insight into modern culture. Presented here in finished form, the gritty tale follows Betsy Scott, who was sexually abused by one of her brothers and spiraled into a cycle of dependency on drugs and meaningless relationships with men. Now a resident of a psychiatric care facility, Betsy alternates between past and present as she describes this torturous path to her doctor. Betsy is any and every character in this genre, and while her tale is told competently, it lacks an extraordinary originality of voice that would engage the reader's understanding and compassion. Of marginal interest for most collections.-Caroline M. Hallsworth, City of Greater Sudbury, Ont. Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information. - Library Journal
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Published by: Akashic Books, Ltd.: , 2004
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ISBN: 9781888451634 | 1888451637
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