So You Want to Talk about Race by Ijeoma Oluo

In this #1 New York Times bestseller, Ijeoma Oluo offers a revelatory examination of race in America Protests against racial injustice and white supremacy have galvanized millions around the world. The stakes for transformative conversations about race could not be higher. Still, the task ahead seems daunting, and it's hard to know where to start. How do you tell your boss her jokes are racist? Why did your sister-in-law hang up on you when you had questions about police reform? How do you explain white privilege to your white, privileged friend? In So You Want to Talk About Race, Ijeoma Oluo guides readers of all races through subjects ranging from police brutality and cultural appropriation to the model minority myth in an attempt to make the seemingly impossible possible: honest conversations about race, and about how racism infects every aspect of American life. Simply put: Ijeoma Oluo is a necessary voice and intellectual for these times, and any time, truth be told. --Phoebe Robinson, New York Times bestselling author of You Can't Touch My Hair Editorial Reviews Simply put: Ijeoma Oluo is a necessary voice and intellectual for these times, and any time, truth be told.-Phoebe Robinson, New York Times-bestselling author of You Can't Touch My Hair Oluo is out to help put words to action, which at this day and age, might be exactly what we need.-Forbes Impassioned and unflinching -Vogue.com Fascinating, real, and necessary.-The Root Read it, then recommend it to everyone you know.-Harper's Bazaar (Named a Top 10 Book of the Year) I don't think I've ever seen a writer have such an instant, visceral, electric impact on readers. Ijeoma Oluo's intellectual clarity and moral sure-footedness make her the kind of unstoppable force that obliterates the very concept of immovable objects.-Lindy West, New York Times-bestselling author of Shrill A guidebook for those who want to confront racism and white supremacy in their everyday lives, but are unsure where to start.-Bitch Oluo offers us a reset, a starting point, a clear way forward.-dream hampton, writer, activist, filmmaker, and executive producer of Surviving R. Kelly A must-read primer on the politics of American racism.-Bustle - From the Publisher 11/13/2017 Oluo, an editor at large at the Establishment, assesses the racial landscape of contemporary America in thoughtful essays geared toward facilitating difficult conversations about race. Drawing on her perspective as a black woman raised by a white mother, she shows how race is so interwoven into America's social, political, and economic systems that it is hard for most people, even Oluo's well-intentioned mother, to see when they are being oblivious to racism. Oluo gives readers general advice for better dialogue, such as not getting defensive, stating their intentions, and staying on topic. She addresses a range of tough issues--police brutality, the n word, affirmative action, microaggressions--and offers ways to discuss them while acknowledging that they're a problem. For example, Oluo writes that the common phrase check your privilege is an ineffective weapon for winning an argument, as few people really understand the concept of privilege, which is integral to many of the issues of race in America. She concludes by urging people of all colors to fear unexamined racism, instead of fearing the person who bring that oppression to light. She's insightful and trenchant but not preachy, and her advice is valid. For some it may be eye-opening. It's a topical book in a time when racial tensions are on the rise. (Jan.) - Publishers Weekly *06/01/2018 You are going to screw this up royally. More than once, notes writer and editor Oluo in this slim but potent guide to discussing race. Nevertheless, she urges readers to push past their discomfort; to do otherwise is to accept a society entrenched in systemic racism. The author knows all too well the consequences of ignorance about race. A black queer woman, she not only experiences prejudice but also endures the additional burden of educating those who are skeptical about her oppression. Precise, poignant, and edifying, this primer gives readers much-needed tools, explaining academic concepts such as privilege and intersectionality, debunking harmful myths, and offering concrete ways to confront racism. Blending personal accounts and meticulously cited research, Oluo demonstrates how racism permeates every aspect of society, from education to the police force. She writes with empathy for her readers yet laudably refuses to let those who haven't grappled with their white privilege off the hook--Don't force people to acknowledge your good intentions, she advises those who have inadvertently offended a person of color. VERDICT Profound yet deeply accessible, this is essential reading for anyone seeking to understand and combat institutional racism.--Mahnaz Dar, School Library Journal - School Library Journal Narrator Bahni Turpin's impassioned voice clearly conveys the gravity of this book on race and racism. The accessible audiobook is aimed at those who are working to fight the systemic oppression impacting people of color. Turpin walks listeners through each chapter, allowing them time to absorb the impact of topics from Affirmative Action to police brutality. Key points are repeated to help listeners absorb ideas and definitions, and Turpin engagingly reads real-life examples Oluo uses to illustrate complex concepts such as intersectionality and white privilege. Listeners may want to revisit specific sections, especially those on how to have productive and respectful conversations about race and positive actions they can take to work towards ending racial prejudice backed by systems of power. E.E.C. Winner of AudioFile Earphones Award, 2018 Best Audiobook AudioFile 2018, Portland, Maine - FEBRUARY 2018 - AudioFile 2017-10-09 Straight talk to blacks and whites about the realities of racism.In her feisty debut book, Oluo, essayist, blogger, and editor at large at the Establishment magazine, writes from the perspective of a black, queer, middle-class, college-educated woman living in a white supremacist country. The daughter of a white single mother, brought up in largely white Seattle, she sees race as one of the most defining forces in her life. Throughout the book, Oluo responds to questions that she has often been asked, and others that she wishes were asked, about racism in our workplace, our government, our homes, and ourselves. Is it really about race? she is asked by whites who insist that class is a greater source of oppression. Is police brutality really about race? What is cultural appropriation? and What is the model minority myth? Her sharp, no-nonsense answers include talking points for both blacks and whites. She explains, for example, when somebody asks you to 'check your privilege' they are asking you to pause and consider how the advantages you've had in life are contributing to your opinions and actions, and how the lack of disadvantages in certain areas is keeping you from fully understanding the struggles others are facing. She unpacks the complicated term intersectionality: the idea that social justice must consider a myriad of identities--our gender, class, race, sexuality, and so much more--that inform our experiences in life. She asks whites to realize that when people of color talk about systemic racism, they are opening up all of that pain and fear and anger to you and are asking that they be heard. After devoting most of the book to talking, Oluo finishes with a chapter on action and its urgency. Action includes pressing for reform in schools, unions, and local governments; boycotting businesses that exploit people of color; contributing money to social justice organizations; and, most of all, voting for candidates who make diversity, inclusion and racial justice a priority.A clear and candid contribution to an essential conversation. - Kirkus Reviews